
Throughout this adoption, and Ana's adoption, we had many people, friends and family, ask, "If you don't mind me asking, how much is the adoption going to cost?" Or, "How on earth can you afford that?" OR some have said to me, "I think it would be so great to adopt, we could never afford it though."
Those are all valid questions and concerns. I don't mind one bit when people ask us! We are a single income (have been for 19 years!), military family! How have we been able to do it??
The Lord has provided.
Yes, we have sold things (but didn't the Lord provide us with our "stuff" in the first place?). We have had some wonderful people donate to our cause, and even those that could only donate $10, they were prompted by (and then obeyed!) the Lord to donate! We have even humbly "inherited" some money that was to be used for our adoption, but the Lord also lead that person to leave it for that cause. ALL the glory goes to God, without Him, no, we couldn't afford to adopt!
But the Lord's heart is FOR adoption! He is the "Father to the fatherless..." I know that this fallen world we live in breaks our Lord's heart. He doesn't want these sweet, precious children of His to go without a family to love them and care for them! He has adopted each of us through Jesus Christ. Therefore, why wouldn't He provide for His people to adopt these children of His into our families? The answer is, He does!! We just need to trust in Him and step out in faith and just do it.
That's not easy.
Both of our adoptions have been huge lessons for us in that area!! We seriously went into Ana's adoption with our eyes blinded by the Lord as to how much the adoption was going to be. We had started out in another country that was going to cost about half of what Kazakhstan did. I know, without a doubt, if we would have realized just how much it was going to cost, we would have panicked!! I know what you are thinking, how on earth could you go into something like that and not realize how much it was going to be? Good question... I know it was the Lord's doing. And since He did blind us to the total cost, we were able to experience a miracle! When we needed large chunks of money for the adoption, miraculously, it was there! We would sell something (vehicle, boat, etc.) and people were lined up to pay full price!! (If you know us, that doesn't usually happen to us!!). Tax return came in unusually high, at the exact amount that we needed at that time! So many more examples, but you get the idea!
There have been times during this adoption that I have gotten down about the fact that I come across all these other people that have tons of friends, family, and strangers financially supporting their adoption. The Lord has gently reminded me that first of all, I need to be extremely happy for those people! ;-) But more importantly, I need to remember that if I'm down about that, then I'm placing my trust in mere people, and not completely trusting my Provider! Please forgive me, Lord!
The reason I wrote this post is because this topic has really been on my heart a lot lately. I don't want people thinking that we are so good to adopt twice (big deal! I know of MANY families that have adopted five times that many kids!!), or that we are sacrificing so much of ourselves by adopting (No way! We aren't sacrificing...we are being blessed beyond words!).
I just want to share with others the wonderful, miraculous way that Lord is once again providing for us. I want to encourage others who have ever even remotely thought about adopting to take that huge leap of faith and do it!! If you have been called by God, then He won't disappoint you!
I have come across quite a few people lately that have stepped out in faith to adopt (that also can't afford it.) I struggle with the feeling that the Lord wants me to give to their causes. "But Lord, I have my own cause going on here!" LOL!! He clearly told me that He could take my $20 multiply it greatly. Cool!! Besides, didn't the Lord provide me with that original $20 anyway? (I need to always remind myself of that!!) ;-)
A friend of mine (that has been a huge supporter of our adoption! Thanks J!!) told me about a blog post called "
Single? Married? Exactly How To Pay For An Adoption?" that she had read about this very topic. I went and read it and really couldn't believe how it was almost word-for-word what has been on my heart lately!! I know that it will encourage you, humble you, and inspire you! Please take the time to read it! I so want to be the kind of Christian that doesn't just sit back all comfortable (like I so often do!), but one that gives of my life sacrificially to others by honoring and glorifying our Almighty God!!
I hope that if any of you are straddling that line of whether or not to take that leap of faith to adopt, please know that the Lord will provide!! Be inspired! The Lord has great things planned for you! ;-)
May you trust in Him always!! Remember, He can move mountains!